Is it possible that they are waking up, and realizing that their past behavior is not following the example set by Christ?
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Consperiacy or am I seeing things?
by dogon inmy wifes family has not really kept in contact with her after we left the cult.
i am the main reason but she never was a strong believer she just went with the flow as to not cause problems.
she has not heard much from her mother since the death of her brother 3 years ago.
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3 years of study, Just found out!
by impala63rag inhello friends, .
i would like some advice from those that are inpartial, and are familiar with the teachings of jw.
i studied with a wonderful jw couple weekly for 3 years.
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Did he explain to you why his sister was disfellowhipped? I would ask him about the faithful and discreet slave.
There are a lot of things that don't make sense in JW world.
You didn't phrase the question properly. The Governing Body of Jehovah's Witnesses is God's sole channel to people today. They speak for God, and any JW who denies that the "Faithful & Discreet Slave," is giving them all their spiritual food in this time of the end, is subject to suspicion and can be put on trial in front of their own private panel of elders.
What evidence can they show you that the GB is that slave, or even that we are supposed to follow a slave. (Who sends money to slaves, and waits for their instructions to come to them in a magazine format? ... JWs do. Does that make sense?)
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3 years of study, Just found out!
by impala63rag inhello friends, .
i would like some advice from those that are inpartial, and are familiar with the teachings of jw.
i studied with a wonderful jw couple weekly for 3 years.
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Do not get baptized as a JW. Ever. Just don't do it. Ever.
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Is there going to be a 2014 district convention?
by booker-t ini have heard rumors for over a year now that the wt is not going to have a 2014 dc.
i know they are having a circuit assembly and special day talk assembly but what about their yearly dc.
has anybody heard anything?.
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Last night, my mom was very excited to tell me that there was an Interntational Convention in the US this year. It will be a 3-day weekend (Detroit, June 6-8 for her), and will be held instead of the District Convention.
She is very excited about it, and said there would be about 25,000 people there.
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discussion with a friend
by inbetween inrecently, i met an old friend for a coffee, he is a jw in good standing.. he does not know of my "awakening", but he knows, that i m pretty open with things.. so he came up with some thoughts, that, if somebody listened, would be enough for a jc on basis of apostasy.. since his english is not so good, i suppose he did not read this on the internet.. i just paraphrase some of his thoughts:.
the creation account in genesis is not accurate and in line with science.
a global flood was not possible.
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inbetween: You are a good friend, to let him tell you about his feelings and doubts. I'm sure it is a great relief to be able to talk to someone who understands. What a great opportunity and release for you both.
I get the impression it's very hard to find a JW friend you can trust with your secrets.
Today, it seems that simply doubting or asking questions about the JW religion, is worse than breaking the top 10 commandments of the Old Testament. New World (translation) Order!
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JW. org: "No, we are not a cult. We do not look to any human as our leader."
by Faithful Witness ini know this has been rehashed, time and again, but i saw this interesting blip on jw.org last night, and did a little thinking about it.... jw.
org answers the important question that so many have... are jehovah's witnesses a cult?.
jehovah's witnesses do not look to any human as their leader.
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Some might think of a "cult" as being a high-control group, that tells you what kind of pants men can wear...
http://youtu.be/HfIAvuaQ9Mw (GB member Anthony Morris, talks about tight pants on men - from Cedars YouTube channel)
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My JW mom is coming to visit this Friday!!
by Faithful Witness inmy parents are recent converts to jw (both baptized).
i was never a jw, but did study with them for a long time.
after doing research, my husband and i quit going to meetings and stopped the bs.
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Carla: I appreciate that thought. I am not afraid to read the literature, and I share my perceptions of the articles, on occasion. Some of the things I say and ask, are actually making her think. She knows I am in an in-depth study of the book of Matthew with BSF right now, and always perks up her ears when I share a tidbit of something I read.
I want her to know that I am well aware of the things she is reading and parroting from the WT magazine. She asked me if I was still getting the mags, I suspect, because I had not made any comments about current issues. I think there is at least a little part of her that still wants to get a reality check once in awhile. She knows something is not quite right, although she hasn't said so directly. Her remarks give her away. There is still an awake person inside there, fighting to get past the controls being placed on her by the WTS, my sister and my dad. I would like to be her safe place, and if I understand what she is going through a little better, then she feels she can make express herself to me, hopefully someday. I won't tell the elders.
I told her how happy we were that she came to visit, and that I don't want to say anything that will make her think I am "bad." I am doing what I can to keep her closer and trusting me, even if it means being willing to listen to their false information. I'm keeping myself informed of what is happening inside, as much as possible for an outsider.
If my agreeing to accept magazines, will get her to come over and spend the night (which means skipping field service the next day)... it's worth it to me. My kids will never buy into JW deception.
Knowing that she will be bringing me the literature, I can do my "homework" ahead of time. When she gives me the mags, I will actually look inside and notice something interesting, comment on something no one has said inside the KH... maybe even something she was thinking, but knew she would not be allowed to say to anyone. This could be an opportunity for me to let her know more explicitly that I am here, and that she can trust me with her doubts. Like I said, I won't tell!
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3 years of study, Just found out!
by impala63rag inhello friends, .
i would like some advice from those that are inpartial, and are familiar with the teachings of jw.
i studied with a wonderful jw couple weekly for 3 years.
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Faithful Witness
I asked my mom yesterday, if she believed that the Governing Body actually speaks for God, and she immediately said, "Yes. I do."
My mother, who used to be a Bible-believing Christian, now follows the doctrine of the faithful & discreet slave, and their leadership over all.
She is currently awaiting their instructions, although she does deny that she would commit suicide with the group.
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My JW mom is coming to visit this Friday!!
by Faithful Witness inmy parents are recent converts to jw (both baptized).
i was never a jw, but did study with them for a long time.
after doing research, my husband and i quit going to meetings and stopped the bs.
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We had a nice visit with Grandma. She really enjoyed visiting with the kids, and my son even got her to play Mario Kart racing, which was pretty hilarious. She made rubber band loom bracelets with my daughter, and was very patient and sweet to both of them.
I did ask her how many visitors she had when in the hospital. She told me she had told Dad not to tell anyone she was there, so none! She liked it that way. That fits her true personality, and it also tells me that she does not have any friends at the KH that she really enjoys spending time with. She claims to like going out in service, and "wanting to get back into it... it's just been so cold!"
She is coming back in 2 weeks, and is planning to spend the night next time. That will be fun. She said (as she always used to), "You know me, once I get here, I never want to go home!"
While at dinner, she brought up a question about whether I get magazines anymore. It turns out, she meant the WT and Awake (duh). She said, "You're scaring them off." I told her i just have too many questions and they don't want to answer. They keep saying they are coming back, but then they never show up. Then I told her the example of the question I asked the last lady, about their time cards and reporting their good deeds to men for recognition, quoting Jesus in Matthew 6:1-5. I didn't pose the question to my mom, but just anecdotally. I wanted to give her something to chew on before she heads out in service this morning.
Last fall, I had sent an email to her and my dad, about the article they finally studied last month, about "obeying instructions." She said that hadn't come up yet. I asked her what she meant, and she said, "They haven't given us the instructions yet." I asked what kinds of comments people were making during the study, and she said they kept hearing about reminders to be obedient during talks, and there were some articles about obeying the elders, but no instructions yet. We talked a little bit about this, and I did pose the question, "So, do you think the GB speaks for God?" She did not even take a breath before saying, "Yes. I do." Scary. Oops. i found the switch to her cult persona, but we quickly got back to normal dinner conversation and visiting with the kids. Much more fun.
I look forward to seeing her again in 2 weeks. She is planning to bring me some magazines.
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JW. org: "No, we are not a cult. We do not look to any human as our leader."
by Faithful Witness ini know this has been rehashed, time and again, but i saw this interesting blip on jw.org last night, and did a little thinking about it.... jw.
org answers the important question that so many have... are jehovah's witnesses a cult?.
jehovah's witnesses do not look to any human as their leader.
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Oubliette: I dug deeper, and found that the link to the original list I took on that website went back to University of Berkely, from an "Open Computing Facility." It appears to be a forum or facility for students at UC Berkeley, as well as other individuals and groups. I was unable to find the credentials or name of the person who actually compiled that list of cult characteristics. I used it, in comparision or addition to the lists I had seen before. Sorry I couldn't find more to back up the source! It appears the article is no longer on the site.
The thing I found interesting, was that jw. org brought up the question itself. "Are JWs a cult?"
Using the term "cult" can have different meanings to different people. I found that particular list interesting, as I did other lists on the site. So much has been written about cults, and the topic is pretty subjective.
There seems to be a concensus that people who are dedicated to high-control groups, do not realize they are being controlled and manipulated.